Unkempt #6 - Two Months Bitch!
Los Angeles actor/writer, Tim Coyne, incoherently rambles while in the midst of a snag in his “4 Month” pursuit.
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Los Angeles actor/writer, Tim Coyne, incoherently rambles while in the midst of a snag in his “4 Month” pursuit.
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Hang in there Tim. Everyone has fights.
Not laughing - I’m sorry you’re in this place Tim - welcome to Mars vs. Venus my friend -
Respectfully - Tamee
Tim,
I’m hearing fear and suspicion. Cut them loose, they are your enemy. When someone you love says something and you don’t know how to take it, assume the best, not the worst. I heard the “Two Months Bitch” and thought she was being funny and saying “We are at the two month mark”. You made the huge leap of “OMG, is she breaking up with me???” See what I mean? I assumed something good, you thought it might mean something horrible. She’s just going to get offended that you thought she would do something that mean.
Trust goes such a long way. WRT her place, when she is ready, she’ll invite you in. Ignore your friends and wait. Don’t push. It’s not important. Let her give what she can, when she can. Don’t worry about roles, about who’s supposed to do what and when it’s supposed to be done.
Oh, and borrow a tent and go camping. It’s cheaper than a hotel room and can be very romantic. At least think about it. (See, I can be touchy feely AND practical)
Honesty, Trust, Communication, and Respect are the fundamentals of a good relationship.
I am not riding a high white horse here, but we use the philosophy of “Say what you mean, mean what you say”. This relieves alot of doubts about what was said. And when there is doubt or confusion, always ASK! Believe it or not, in our 3 year relationship, two years living together, there have been no fights or arguments. Yes there are disagreements at times, but we know where each other stands, and we respect each others opinion.
If it feels right, hang in there it will be worth it. If it doesn’t feel right, get out, it’s not worth it.
DISCLAIMER: We both had to endure horrific 14 year marriages to get to this point. And we did not meet via eHarmony or via any other matching service, we met the traditional way, in a bar!
Tim in debate mode, nooooooo!
Hang in there pal! I’ll talk to you soon.
What in holy christ happened? Now I remember why I hate relationships…fights. Personally I think the ‘2 months bitch’ text sounded like sarcasm…hope you are ok. what am I saying…you’re Tim Coyne…you’ll be ok.
-Alex
Tim,
Man . . take it back to the four months when you just didn’t care –but you did– and just let things happen. The message is just too ambiguous to mean anything at this momment and when things are tense we (humans) have a way of twisting everything. It is good that you stuck your ground and things will happen when they are meant to happen . . . its just hard sometimes to be able to let go . . . it sounds like a lot of us are here for you man!
All the best.
Paul
Thanks everybody! Doing my best.
Tim
Hey Tim
That was a very powerful podcast because the stakes are so high for you personally. What makes it work is that you take us right into the heart of the relationship. Literally recording while in the midst of confusion. This makes for a great podcast, but maybe not the best for a new and fragile relationship.
No matter what happens next, “this too will pass.”
Keep your chin up.
–Lance
I haven’t listened yet, but whatever the message is, whatever the issue is, rise about any suspicions you may have and assume the best.
Love the positivity Mark! Thanks buddy!!
Timmy,
I am simply amazed by your honesty and your willingness to share the most intimate details of your relationship. Follow your heart and keep the faith. I’m routing for you!
Marc
Ok, I feel I’ve been patient. Please give us an update. I’m dying to know what happened.
Hi Tim -
Wow, there are a lot of people rooting for you, and for the right outcome for your life!! You’ve gotten lots of good advice from some people who clearly have a lot of life experience - I don’t necessarily think you share your life with us so that we can tell you how to live it, but human nature compels us to share our experiences, so here’s mine - of course, I’m a chick, so I’m always going to root for the fairy tale ending, but I’m learning to embrace the other kind too . . . I always strive to remember that the right outcome for my life might not be part of the script I have pictured in my head - be open to whatever it is, cause there is something to learn no matter what -
That’s my “for what it’s worth”
Big love - Tamee
Enjoyed this podcast, as always. You are so brave sharing this with all of us. Hope it all works out!!
Gail
P.S Women HATE facts - you know that…….right?
I’m feeling the love! Thank you!
Gail -
That might be the funniest comment I’ve ever received . . . .”Women HATE facts . . .” Yes, I do know that . . . NOW. Where were you when I needed you on the beach?
Beth -
I could just tell you right here, right now what happened but that wouldn’t be any fun. Hah!
Tamee -
You pretty much nailed it. I am learning that in life, love and career, things often don’t follow the script. Like you said, I’m trying to be open about what happens instead.
Marc -
Thanks for the kind words buddy. Yes, following the heart probably leads to the least regrets. Right? I think we’re on to something.
I love the comment your girlfriend (not ex, i hope) made , something like “If you want logic and facts, you should date guys.” That just about sums up 95% of the arguments i’ve had with my wife. Good luck, i hope things work out.
PLEASE give us an update on what’s going on!!! Can’t take it…need to know. Hope everything is going better for the two of you.
Cheers!
I very much second Sharkie’s comment…follow your heart. I, too, am rooting for you.
Love you, Julie
Andy - Rav - Julie
Thanks so much! An update should be coming soon if I can get my life together. More of everything is coming soon (hopefully).
Tim
Always look forward to your shows. Love the vulnerabilty and passion tinged with bittersweet insights about yourself. More genuine human drama in one of your podcasts than any TV or ‘reality’ show.
Thanks Owen. It certainly feels dramatic on my end. More coming soon!
hope all is well and can’t wait for the next update…maybe I shouldn’t be THIS invested…
Hey Tim.
Long time, no talk. Just want to check in on you buddy! Hang in there..
How are you?
I really hope things are going fine now.
Take care!
Daniel
Hey guys! Thanks for checking in on me. I have some stuff coming soon. I’m doing okay. A lot has happened. Yikes!
Tim